I've been ethically non-monogamous my entire adult life and actively polyam for the past 10 years. I recently got out of a 20 year marriage (amicable divorce), and I have one girlfriend I've seen a couple of times a week for the past four years.

My polyam relationships have been one-on-one wholly separate relationships rather than a V, W, quad, or the like.

About me: I'm 52 years old, 5'8" and 165 pounds. I've always tried to stay in shape, and I'm told I look good for my age (pictures in profile). I'm active, love to travel, and love good food.

I've been active in the sex positive community for the past eight years, having founded a couple of sex positive groups (which had a strong poly leaning): SexPositive Reno in 2012 and later SexPositive Bay Area in 2015. Both are part of a larger organization called SexPositive World. I have a strong activist leaning and find doing sex positive events to be very rewarding.

I have a three year old 20 pound multi-poo (Maltese and Poodle) named Bobbie, who is the cutest thing ever.

I'm very compersive, open minded, GGG, and love to experiment. I'm not particularly kinky, but I'm always open to trying stuff my partner is interested in.

I head an IT Department for a local company in SF. I do go into the office every day, but I have minimal contact with others, and we all wear masks and socially distance.

I'm looking for someone age appropriate (say 45-55ish), active, open-minded, fun and easy going.

Here's a recent picture: https://imgur.com/ZdJiuoi

Not to come across as shallow, but a picture or a good description of yourself would be welcome so we can determine if there's a mutual attraction. I'm not a big fan of long online conversations and would rather move to meeting in a park or outdoor cafe sooner than later. I feel like you don't really get to know someone until you meet in person.