So here's the deal, I've had an absolutely incredible start to the year, and I've been itching to share some of these wins and joys with someone I can call my person, so here I am lol. I absolutely killed it in school first of all, and I have finally found my place in vet med which is probably my biggest win. Recently graduated as a VTA In December, and I'm already planning on my next steps (after a well deserved break), starting with working at the clinic I've been volunteering at for a year now. More on this if/when someone decides to drop me a line (gotta stay realistic ya know?). Oh and I got to see Evanescence live right up front in the pits, which was a dream come true for my inner teenager. Plenty more concerts planned for this year, including a trip to Minnesota for the renaissance fest which I did last year too.

Even though im single, I do not expect to find a partner here right away, however the intention is very much there to build something on those lines. I'm a bit of a slow burn being demi. I just want to meet a new alt pal to hang out with (over calls or video if the distance doesn't allow for irl meetups), share music, watch shows, and get high, without any expectations ya know? Just chill vibes while getting to know each other 😊. I'm LGBTQ friendly, knew I was childfree since I was 5, and absolutely love animals. In August, I adopted an very adorable cat and he's definitely been an amazing first cat for me. I've accumulated a huge collection of hobbies, interests, and activities, both indoorsy and outdoorsy. Gotta have balance ya know?

I'm 5'9, 160 ish lbs, bipoc, long black curly hair, a beard, glasses and have tattoos(including a very nerdy sciencey one), with plenty more in my future and also have a pierced eyebrow. Even though I present myself as a guy, I don't have an internal gender representation, as a result of which I don't believe in gender conformity nor do I believe in gender specific hobbies or roles in a relationship. These days l'm back to 3d printing, Japanese stationery, coloring books, uv resin crafts, plants, photography, and astronomy(sending my soul doggo's ashes to space this March 🥹). It's open season for whatever piques my curiosity in that moment so I keep cycling between stuff 😂. Very 420 friendly 🌿, but don't drink for health reasons.I follow a high protein low carb, next to no sugar diet and do my best to take care of my health. I have also usually tested as INTP or INTJ so I swing between the two like a pendulum lol. I'm also highly pragmatic and mostly operate on curiosity and logic So have a tendency to ask questions. A big fan of pebbling (irrespective of whether it's a romantic partner or not). Mutual encouragement and cheerleading is also a big part of who I am and due to my curiosity, I tend to ask a lot of questions.

As far as school goes, I have a plan for the next few years which involves me studying a lot more than I initially planned on doing. Currently graduated as a veterinary technical assistant, but the end goal is to become a registered tech in surgery. Most of my life l've had a penchant for STEM subjects, but never had an opportunity to formally pursue education in the field, till now I already have a degree, kinda redoing life on my terms. 'm also no contact with my birth family, and have a chosen one instead, so no more walking on eggshells. It's been a long hard road to recovery for me, so I do feel like it's important to mention that I do have complex- ptsd, however it is very much managed and under control. And last but not least, my particular flavor of neurodivergence is audhd, and I have a formal Dx of fibromyalgia 😭 (this is where the wd comes in), I have my own house, a really sweet czry, and a life full of adventures 🚗😊. I also grow my own wd, which has been an extremely rewarding experience as well. 👀

You : Please be single, and childfree. 25 and location does not matter. Also don't like texting for too long and prefer to get on a call sooner rather than later. Monogamous, and prefer guys who aren't dominant in any way at all (for those who care about it)😅, and in the same tone, someone who is a natural leader and doesn't want to be led, I can take the lead role when needed but definitely not my preferred role. It would be amaaazing if you also enjoy cute things as much as a nice metal concert, or a live race (motorsports) 🖤. I believe in effective communication versus constant communication, so there's never any expectation or pressure to give timely responses. I'd rather someone take the time to respond properly "when they can" instead of getting a half hearted response. That being said, I also don't appreciate passive aggressiveness, or silent treatments of any kind along with being left hanging in the middle of a conversation without so much as a heads up. If you need space/time for whatever reason, please ask for it, I'm not a mind reader lol 😂 💀. And last but not least, someone who is self aware enough to recognize their own needs, feelings, and actions and can communicate them as well. I'm all about heavy conversations so if you're any kind of avoidant, it won't work with me sadly.

The end! Toodles! 🤭