I feel like I've been slowly waking up from a dissociative fugue state from the past 4 years and realize that while I've been happy and content in my own company, I want to make a concerted effort to make new connections and get back out into the world - at least long enough to find my zombie apocalypse friend group and main squeeze before shit gets real. But seriously folks...
I'm a 43, CIS, bespeckled white woman (NOT a Karen! 😅), eldest (and only) daughter who is looking for my person. A man who's "done the work" (therapy, introspection), is looking for a real authentic connection, loves to love his partner - as in I myself am a giver which means I also need a giver, so that we can both fill each others cups and make sure our own wells don't ever run dry.
Some things I like:
- Pop culture references (think millenial goodness, not reality TV show direction)
- Books (Just finished Hilary Mantel's Wolf Hall series)
- Audio narration (Audible, ASMR, Quinn)
- Podcasts (Chinwag w/ Paul Giamatti Stephen Asma)
- Movies (It'd be easier to list what I don't like!)
- TV (Loki, Dune, Ghosts)
- Music (Smashing Pumpkins, Radiohead, Portishead, The Beatles, Jazz...)
- Poetry (E.E. Cummings, Sylvia Plath)
- Standup (Dave Chapelle to Pete Holmes)
- Drawing/illustrating cute doodles
Instead of a "hey": Why not tell me of the coolest/most interesting thing you saw this week? (I.e. a really cute animal, a quote that resonated, an IRL interaction)
Until then, I'll keep my eyes trained on the horizon, my heart tentatively hopeful
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