Energy is a thing. Haha I typically can feel a person's energy even online and I'm noticing that a lot of people on reddit either want to just have sex right away or they are depressed. I may have a Masters Degree in Clinical Psych but I am not here to be anyones therapist or to explain what Sapiosexual is. I treat online just like in person and I don't just go looking for people to sleep with. I look to see if they use their common sense and intellect. Since common sense isn't common... I will spell it out (lol no need to thank me 😂) If you are looking for just sex, skip me. If you are looking to trauma bond, skip me.

I don't care where you live. If my passport and I.. can get to you ..it's fine. If I don't need my passport, even better. I seek connections in the most realistic way. I show up authentic. I don't know any other way to show up. I don't start off with walls you have to break down nor do I show up with a mask on. I am well educated and well traveled. Iceland was going to be a thing this year but that is no longer the case.

I am poly , kitchen table poly and my current partner is asexual, aromantic and we have a platonic relationship. We are more like besties than anything. But we do have a common law marriage in the state of Texas. (If you didn't know what TX was 😂😂) I date separately, I look for people separately. No unicorn, no special elves no mystic creatures at all haha I'm looking for a legit human who wants an authentic connection.

Currently, I am not looking for a label. Hence why I keep saying connections. I don't care how it blossoms, just as long as it does. I am a person who continues to evolve and staying content is never an option for me.

Since this IS the internet and people usually only thrive off of instant gratification... understand that I am looking for a slow burn. I am not trying to jump into anything right now nor would I expect you to do the same. That's how people miss red flags and that's just not smart. If a foundation of friendship can't even be had, skip me.

Here are my interests/hobbies:

I like going places. I am an introvert and extrovert. For an idea I have an event in Vegas in May and I have an event in Orlando in November both are music events. One is for EDM and the other is Warped Tour haha so my music taste is all over the place.

I like learning especially about spirituality and the mind. I found this new term called psychonaut.

I recently got into drawing, it's been very freeing.

I also enjoy museums and interactive places!

I am learning more and more about cooking and what is good for my body and what is not and it's turning out fun! Mind you I used to eat like a four year old so this is great haha.

Just got back into yoga!! Freaking excited about that too!

I have been playing a lot of CoD recently, been thinking about destiny or halo not sure.

I am a dog person not a cat person. I am allergic to cats lol sorry.

I watch TV and like movies! Definitely a Marvel Fan. (yeah I know the woke agenda kinda messed everything up haha but I'll still watch it at least)

Currently ADHD is pulling my focus so I'm sure I have other stuff we can talk about but for now that's all haha. Have a great day! Oh ps. Just chat, I probably won't respond to comments.