Hello everyone! Here I am once again, trying to find my forever person. A quick disclaimer, I'm only looking for someone with emotional intelligence, who's emotionally available, has time for spending with a potential partner, and has at least a general sense of what they're looking for in their life person. All the small details we can share and learn as we go along.

I'm 44, fairly tall with a slight dad bod - working on that before I get my tummy tattooed though, lol! Speaking of which, I'm absolutely addicted to tattoos and piercings. I'm up to 28 piercings (with more planned in the future), and about 20% of me tattooed (when I'm done, 90% of me will be covered).

I'm a daddy dom/pleasure dom, completely unpartnered. I love severe thunderstorms, they're so passionate and raw and make me feel alive. Cold sheets on hot summer nights feel amazing! The smell of a wood fire takes me to a magical place.

I don't have kids nor want kids, and I've been snipped since 2005. I don't drink or do drugs whatsoever, but I do smoke cigarettes and a tobacco pipe - hoping to quit smoking cigarettes as a Presents Day present to myself this year. Halloween is my jam. I love to go to Salem, MA for about a week almost every year for Halloween, and it's amazing!

I prefer the beach over mountains, though both are nice. I'm definitely a city boy, not a big fan of being in the country. Nature is beautiful, on the other side of a glass window, but small hikes and picnics can be nice from time to time. I love punk music, but listen to a little bit of everything. My Spotify playlists have been called whiplash-inducing. I love horror movies, but watch a little of everything except the news and reality. Sci-fi and comedy tv is great, but again, no reality. I typically read fantasy genre. I'm an atheist, and don't really care what your belief system is, as long as we don't try to force our opinions or beliefs on each other.

For me, a happy, healthy life-long lasting relationship is built on a foundation of love, trust, communication, and sex, and that any aspect of a relationship can fall into one or more of these four categories. I believe that if you're missing any part, it seriously hampers the ability to make the relationship work for a lifetime.

I love the idea of weekly date nights, game nights, and setting aside time to focus on us, check in, and discuss our likes and dislikes, wants, needs and desires regularly. I don't like fighting, but will absolutely be willing to have calm adult discussions to resolve problems and issues. I put in the effort I'm shown, but if you have zero effort, it'll be clear you don't want to be here.

I have a list of kinks a few miles long, and tend to be very dommy. Growling is a regular occurance for me, sometimes even in my sleep. I'd love to find an amazing d/s or ddlg relationship, but I'm open to whatever unique dynamic I share with the right person. I very much prefer monogamy. I tend to be greedy with my partner, and I'd love someone to be greedy with me - in a healthy way, ofc! Lol!

My deal breakers are right-wingers, Drump supporters, and generally close-minded people. Pets in the bedroom is a big peeve for me. Not a fan of blackout drunks or conspiracy nutters.

About you.... I don't really have a physical type. I suppose physically, I'm interested in cis gendered women, and beyond that, I'm an eyes-person. I've become quite demi, and have always been a bit sapio. Good hygiene, fully open communication, and someone with a generally positive outlook about enjoying life are attractive. A brilliant sense of humor is gorgeous! Someone who can be subby, but who also can appreciate equality and equity in a relationship when it comes to big life decisions. My ideal person will be the woman Foy Vance sings about in She Burns.

Anywho, if this is you or you'd like to just talk and get to know each other, feel free to message at any time!

Thank you for the messages! But if you're currently parnered/committed/married, I'm not interested. I'm happy that you've found your person/people, but I'm searching for my person. I can't snuggle with the thought of your relationship in bed at night. I'm also not interested in men. This is clearly posted looking for women. I'm sorry, but you 100% will not be the dude who makes me change my mind.