Hi there! I'm a 36-year-old guy based in Oxford, UK. I’ve posted on this subreddit a few times before, but I’m putting myself out here again because I’ve been feeling a bit more lonely than usual lately, and I’d love to connect with new people who share some similar interests.

Here’s a little more about me:

What I do: I work as an analytical chemist, which is a field that I find both challenging and rewarding. My job keeps me busy, but it’s always nice to have some downtime to unwind.

Interests: I’ve got a pretty diverse range of hobbies and passions that keep me entertained:

Reading: I’m currently reading Karla's Choice by Nick Harkaway (really enjoying it so far!), but I’m always on the lookout for book recommendations. Photography: I absolutely love photography and capturing moments that tell a story. You can check out my work here: Flickr. Swimming: It’s one of my favorite ways to stay active and clear my mind. There’s something calming about being in the water. Travel: I’ve been lucky enough to visit some amazing places recently, including Czechia, Denmark, Austria, and Germany. Travel is something I really enjoy—whether it’s exploring new cities or finding hidden gems in nature. Personality: I’d describe myself as an introvert, but once I get to know someone and feel comfortable, I open up more. I’m more of a listener than a talker, but I love engaging in meaningful conversations once I connect with someone.

Past Experiences: I’ve lived in Austria and Lithuania in the past, and both of those experiences taught me a lot about different cultures and perspectives, which I really appreciate.

Appearance: I’m 5'10", have an average build, and have blond hair. Not that looks matter too much, but I figure it’s good to be upfront about these things!

What am I looking for?

I’m open to meeting new people and seeing where things go. I’m not setting any rigid expectations—I’m just interested in getting to know someone and seeing if we click. Here’s what I’d love to find:

Age: I’m looking to connect with people who are at least 25 years old. Age is just a number, but it helps to be in a similar stage of life!

Location: I’m based in the UK, but I’m open to connecting with people from Europe as well. Distance isn’t a huge dealbreaker for me, and I enjoy learning about different cultures and perspectives.

Respect: Above all, I value respect and kindness. Good communication, understanding, and mutual respect go a long way for me, so please be someone who can appreciate that.

Connection: Whether it’s through shared interests or just a good vibe, I’m excited to see what kind of connections might come out of this. If you’re looking for a genuine connection, let’s chat!

Thanks for reading my post! If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out—I’m looking forward to hearing from you soon. Wishing everyone a wonderful day! 💛