So, first timer here!

I’m a 47 year old man in a committed relationship with two kiddos. Not looking to change my situation or yours, but over the past three years, emotional and sexual availability in my relationship has evaporated. The time-honored ‘dead bedroom.’ I do not have any ill will or animosity toward my spouse, but it’s not a situation I can change, so I’m really hoping to find someone in a similar situation that needs that breath of fresh air. That hit of dopamine that comes from a text, or the rush of knowing we’ll get to meet in person soon for some much needed, in-person relief!

I’m 5’7”, brown wavy hair, 165 lbs (dad bod anyone?), white skin. Lately I have had to work overnight, so my skin is probably a little whiter than usual.

A bit about me:

• I play guitar / love all kinds of music
• Avid reader
• IT Geek (but not insufferable)
• Love to write.. a lot
• INFP on the ‘Briggs test
• Psych major with a focus on Cluster B disorders, but my career ultimately took a different path. Still, I love psych and I promise to use my powers for good!
• Sapiosexual / Sapiophile. Yes, intelligence is a turn on!
• Center left politically if that matters, but I don’t judge.
• Physical touch is my love language. I crave — no, NEED to touch and be touched. Feeling connected in that way is important to me. Just hands or our whole bodies. Any configuration as far as that goes.
• Kinky and imaginative, always open to exploring new ways to express ourselves sexually. Not going any deeper into that here, you’ll just have to get to know me.
• Disease free, 420 friendly (although it’s been forever).

You:

• Physical attraction is important to me, but your mind and imagination are more important.
• Over 25 and also in a committed relationship.
• Prefer you also be a parent, but not a hard requirement.
• Longs for both emotional and physical connection that has faded in your relationship. Have a void to fill with me!
• At least slightly kinky / open minded (or mostly open minded) sexually.
• Located in Wisconsin at least, preferably around Appleton.

Send me a chat and if we gel, we can move to another communication method of your choice. This is my first time trying an affair, but I have read up on implementing OpSec for secure, ongoing communication as necessary.

Look forward to hearing from you!