I struggle with bipolar, OCD, and PTSD. It's been rough, and I definitely still do not have my stuff together, but I'm always striving for improvement. It's completely OK if you don't have your stuff together too!

I'm deeply passionate about music. I produce and compose music, and also play percussion. There's something absolutely indescribable about being at a music event where everyone is on that same vibe together. I also listen to SO much different music, and I'm always interested in checking out new things that I've never heard before.

I practice Buddhism, and I'm into kindness. I'm also into psychology, and a bit of late night armchair philosophy.

My Myers Briggs personality type is INFP. I'm a deeply sensitive person, beyond what is "useful". It's the only way I know how to be.

I work in healthcare (patient registration) and I worked for the same hospital for almost 20 years. I just started a new position at a different hospital.

I enjoy spontaneity, taking each day as it comes, and appreciating what we already have rather than pining for more.

I consider myself both demisexual and sapiosexual.

I love, love, love, deep conversations... Trying to understand each other deeply. I crave to be understood deeply as much as I want to understand you deeply. I love the spark of a new relationship, and that feeling of excitement about having a new message from someone. Could that person be you?

The primary attribute I'm looking for in someone is intelligence. Ideally they would also be open minded, empathetic, and compassionate. We could be accountability buddies and work on getting our stuff together, together :)

Historically speaking I've gotten along best with gals who also have both a mood disorder and an anxiety disorder (i.e. depression and anxiety). But this is not a hard limit for me and if you have other issues I would still be willing to give it a try.

Beyond that, I'm curious to know what makes you YOU.

If you choose to write me, please include a song that is meaningful to you. It would be nice if you wrote more than 2 sentences. Low effort messages will be ignored.

I look forward to hearing from you :)