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41 [f4m] SW Ontario - looking for LTR
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X_Ultima is a female age 41 looking for a male
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Hi, single mom from Ontario, Canada looking to find love. So here I am, giving the universe a gentle nudge to see what happens. Interested in friends first to see if there's a spark/connection, and go from there.

About me (forgive the random mess of words you are about to read): 

I'm petite, 5'1½" short, 108lbs, with dark brown shoulder length hair, and greyish green-blue eyes, with a soft-spoken voice. In essence: I am a family-oriented certified PSW, amateur photographer, introvert, hopeless romantic, daydreaming nature-lover with an interest in ahimsa and anti-speciesism. To elaborate: Family is important to me, I love spending time with mine whenever I can, and I take care of those I love. Trouble connecting with people because I'm a bit shy at first and socially awkward? A little. But I would still like to find my person ♡. You will find me to be a good listener, patient, and thoughtful. As well as very empathetic. This shows in much of what I do... I truly love to live simply and with kindness and respect towards other animals on the planet, and I am always looking to live a life with the least amount of harm done, whether it be through what I eat, or supporting animal rights causes. I Do what I can. I keep an open mind, and I'm continually reading books to improve upon myself and to fine-tune my perspective on things. To wrap this up, I'll add that I'm a very creative and artistic person, always looking for a creative outlet, either through photography, photo art, or food.. I love trying to capture the beauty in anything that I see, and I enjoy sharing it with others.

My likes:

  • I love to dance, run, and sing
  • Photography, photo art, taking food pictures
  • The sunshine and feeling its warmth on my skin
  • The sunrise and hearing the first songs of the birds in the morning
  • The peace of being alone, I enjoy my "me" time, but also would love our "us" time
  • Exploring trails and waterfalls and looking forward to more of it
  • Video games and the memories I have made with them
  • How freshly fallen snow sparkles like diamonds under the sun
  • The smell of the cold crisp winter air and the feeling of winter changing to spring
  • I love the excitement of watching a movie in the theatre
  • I love the smell of past memories and how their scent randomly finds the way to me
  • Whenever I meet departed friends in my dreams, lost but not ever forgotten ♡
  • Aimless long-distance walks/hikes, cycling
  • Finding a cozy spot to plant my feet in the grass to soak in the beauty of the world around me
  • Music: I have a very wide range of preferences here, ranging from epic instrumental music to movie soundtracks, hip-hop, rock, or even cello metal, So I won't get into detail. Anything empowering that I can dance to, really. I'm drawn to music that just gives my heart wings.
  • TV/movies: I gravitate more towards post-apocalyptic, zombie, action, sci-fi, fantasy, thought-provoking, for example: The crow (Brandon Lee), The fountain, Resident evil, book of Eli, Marvel movies, Predators, Lord of the rings, rings of power, stranger Things, any space movie ever.
  • I enjoy stretching my creativity in a number of different ways including baking elaborate cakes, making simple food look pretty, sewing mini quilts or Halloween costumes, and creating photo art. Any games with a design or building aspect (The Sims, personal spaces on mmorpgs) I enjoy as an escape in which I can stretch my imagination and take a break from reality. My interest in video games is similar to the movies I watch, although not much of a gamer these days.

If there's anything else you'd like to know, please feel free to ask.

Looking for:

I lead a quiet life; I don't drink or smoke or make loud noise. I’m a big fan of enjoying the small, quiet moments in life, and would love to find someone to share them with. I'm hoping to find a sweet guy to get to know through voice calls who shares similar lifestyle/values of simple living, active, nature-loving, anti-speciesism (this is one of the most important for me), and monogamy. Preferably someone close in age or older and local (Snow angels? Finding beauty on the frozen trails? Or just a hot decaf latte while strolling through the snowy streets?) Not looking for: married men, poly, fwb, or one-night stands (I do not mean to offend anyone, these are things I just do not prefer.)

If any of this resonates with you and you feel a connection with what I've written here, feel free to send a little note my way to explore and see if there's potential for anything between us. I look forward to hearing from you. If not, thank you for reading and happy new year :)

p.s. Messages are preferred to chats, my chats don't work well.

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a female
Age
41
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a male
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