So I've perused this and other dating subs and I've read so much about people wanting a potential partner who is "Put together" or "has their shit together" financially, socially, etc. I have nothing against this. But I'm curious...are there people out there who DONT have their shit together but are instead struggling and trying hard to get their lives back together? Aren't these people looking for potential partners also? Aren't there people out there who want a connection during a hard time in their lives? Why is "love" allowed its special spotlight in ones life, but we are taught we should only set aside a "space" for that love when everything is "in order"? I'm not knocking how people prefer to do things, but I am highlighting something I feel is overlooked. People who get overlooked and labeled bc they do not meet societal "requirements" for "proper" relationships. Im going to be honest...Im struggling. I'm not looking for anything (material, financial, etc) from anyone. But it would be nice if some people weren't just so quick to write someone off who is struggling. I dont think I'm the only one who may feel this way. But I could be wrong I guess.

I'm looking for someone who wants to start with conversation. I like deep conversation. Intellectual conversation, but I can also talk about pretty much anything. I'd rather measure my interests and compatibility with someone based on conversation and an exchange of ideas, as opposed to "looks" and propped "images." Everything else out of focus. If you're interested in starting out this way, and eventually opening doors over time, then feel free to message me. Just DM me the title of your favorite song or theory and I'll respond ASAP.

If anything, friendship is a hopeful outcome, or even just useful and helpful advice. Right?

Looking forward to responses. Hope everyone is having a good day.