I've found the older I've got, the naughtier my sexual behaviour has become. Is this normal? I'm a 6ft tall, white, english male from the UK. 100% single, never married, 0 kids. Average build/stocky build (dad bod). Very pleasant to talk to and the last person you'd think would be as naughty behind closed doors as I am. My friends would be shocked if you told them I used to go to swinger clubs & events. I'm intelligent, well spoken and a gentleman outside and about. I work hard, have a good job, drive, and im a non-smoker.

I'm looking for a lady local to me. Ideally for a ethical non-monogamous relationship. I would like to explore swinging more seriously with a partner committed to each other. We would attend swinging clubs, parties and events together. So someone very open minded, adventurous and open to new ideas in the bedroom I.e. partner swapping, orgies, soft swap etc. Then in our normal lives we would just do the normal thing expected of us. Work during the day, evenings out, meals in/out. Days out together, cinema, bowling. Holidays/short breaks away together etc. Just like a normal couple.

Obviously there has to be a lot of trust involved, so at first it would just be getting to know each other and if we're compatible both sexually and relationship wise. Then assuming both parties are happy, we would branch out. Create a swinging profile together and look for new adventures.

Please check my profile for pictures of myself, and I also have a women's written success story from a few years ago of an encounter we had together. This is just to prove that I'm genuine, and reliable and 100% serious on this

In response. Please no timewasters or fantasists. This is something that you musr really want to do and have maybe thought about doing it for a while but couldn't find a guy, or maybe couldn't approach a guy to talk about this.