I’m looking for someone who truly values connection and is willing to put in the effort to build something meaningful even over online long distance.

I believe relationships take work, communication, and consistency, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares that mindset and wishes to start an online LDR.

Here’s a little about me:

I’m a 38 year old homeschool mom and blogger (I write about education) based in Eastern Europe. I’m into sci-fi and fantasy and Star Wars is a favorite. I love Studio Ghibli films and a good anime now and then.

I’m a bit geeky, thoughtful, and value deep conversations.

I’m 5’4 and I don’t look too bad physically: green eyes, auburn hair… but I think what matters most is that I am kind, affectionate, caring and very honest and open.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and willing to put in the work for an online long-distance relationship. (Which would hopefully translate to real life if things go well)

A man who genuinely wants to get to know me as a person and is not just hung up the idea of a relationship.

A man who values loyalty, honesty, communication, consistency, and isn’t afraid to make an effort despite the distance. (Please sweep me off my feet).

I prefer tall, Caucasian men (6’ ) living in Europe because it’s easier to close the distance and I don’t want to move from Europe. I also prefer men from UK or Ireland because from all my interactions so far I’ve connected the best with them.

But I’m willing to bend my preferences for someone who is worth it regardless of location (as long as we fit culturally).

If you’re just looking for casual chats or think an online/LDR relationship is too much work, this probably isn’t for you. I’m at a stage in my life where I value quality over quantity, and I know exactly what I want and won’t settle for less than mutual effort and care.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me and share a bit about yourself.