Hi there,

If you're reading this, chances are you're looking for something real. While I’m not entirely convinced this platform will lead me to the one, I’m ready to be surprised!

I’m 39, from the UK, and open to connecting with someone from anywhere in the world — honestly, the thought of jumping on a plane to meet regularly would only add to the excitement.

I’m the kind of person who loves to laugh and make others smile, which is probably why I’ve been told I have a bit of a Patch Adams vibe. I truly believe that being able to share funny, lighthearted moments with someone you have a connection with is one of the best parts of life.

But here’s the thing — I want to find a woman who will take my breath away. The kind of woman who, when I catch a glimpse of her across the room at a party or in a crowd, will make me leave the conversation I’m having just because the twinkle in her eye calls to me. I’ll want to walk over, wrap my arms around her, and kiss her — because in that moment, she’s lucky enough to be mine.

I want someone who values a man who works hard. I’m committed to what I do, and I take pride in working for what I want — but don’t get it twisted, I also play harder. Life’s about balance, and when I’m not working, I’m enjoying life and the moments that make it worth living.

If I give you my heart, I give it for safekeeping. That means when I open up to you, I’m doing so with the intention of building something solid, something meaningful. Trust and commitment mean everything to me, and I’m looking for someone who feels the same way.

I don’t want to give too much away about myself upfront — part of the fun is getting to know each other through conversations that grow naturally, discovering who we are together. But here’s what I’m hoping for in someone…

You’re looking for something real and meaningful, and you’re ready to take things slowly. You value affection, with touch being an important love language for you. You want to be with someone who will truly appreciate you and love you without reservation.

You know that the small things matter most and that love and companionship are what really make life worthwhile. I’m open to connecting with a woman of any age, as I believe true connection goes beyond numbers. What’s more important is that you’re a mature soul who values life and is ready for a meaningful relationship.

If you're a mum, it won’t deter me — in fact, I deeply respect the journey of motherhood and the strength it brings.

If you're someone who enjoys simple, meaningful moments and is ready to build a life full of love, laughter, and shared dreams, I’d love to hear from you.

Please only respond if you’re genuinely willing to share an intro about yourself along with a picture. One liners or saying ‘Hi’ unfortunately will not yield a response! I’m excited to get to know more about you!