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40 [F4M] #US - Seeking emotionally intelligent partner - location flexible
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Velvet_Virtue is a female age 40 looking for a male in US
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Currently finishing a 6-month stint as a digital nomad after selling my Bay Area home and exploring Europe (heading back stateside soon). Looking for a genuine connection with someone who combines professional drive with real emotional intelligence.

About me: Senior marketing/business strategist working with PE/VC firms and their portfolio companies. Love both analytical problem-solving and creative pursuits. You'll find me playing ice hockey, working on woodworking projects, riding my motorcycle, or tending to flowers wherever I can. I play the flute for fun, enjoy the fine arts, and am equally happy geeking out over shows like Foundation or Battlestar Galactica. Fair warning: I might challenge you to a backgammon match on our first date - I promise to try not to be too competitive about it.

Seeking: US-based, child-free, liberal/progressive man who matches my professional ambitions but isn't afraid to get hands-on with life. Must be emotionally present, proactive about planning, and excited about true partnership. Looking for someone who understands that emotional labor, like cooking a thoughtful meal or planning dates, is as important as career success.

I value authenticity and directness - please include a recent photo in your first message. I'll reciprocate if I feel there might be a connection. Let's not waste time if there's no mutual attraction.

Bonus points if you: - Can balance boardroom polish with hands-on hobbies - Love cooking and trying new recipes - Understand that flowers aren't just for special occasions

Non-negotiables: - US-based - Child-free (including grown children) - Politically progressive - Secular/non-religious - Emotionally intelligent and self-aware - Financially established in your career

Let's start with a conversation and see where it leads. If you need a way to start the conversation, start by telling me what was the last book you read.

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