Iām married, but lonely. Iām a family man and we really have a great situation for our children so I donāt want to mess that up. But my loneliness is really affecting my mental health and Iām trying to reach out and find someone who might be in a similar situation, or at least understanding.
About me: Iām a pretty funny dude, although I canāt think of anything funny to say at the moment to prove that. Too much pressure! But trust me, Iām a huge goofy dork haha. So if youāre looking for someone ācoolā then Iām not your guy. Iām on the spectrum, and socially awkward, but very friendly. Youād really be best getting to know me online. Iām not 100% opposed to meeting in person, but it has to be the right circumstance. Iām also pretty intelligent, educated, can be very deep and intellectual, and very bad at small talk. Iām a nerd and enjoy science, gaming, science fiction and fantasy, dungeons and dragons, and much more. If looks matter Iām an average height chubby bearded dad so if that does matter and you donāt like that then move on. Nothing hurts more than to get to know someone only to have them immediately ghost you when you share photos.
You: Not too young, and not too old. I know thatās vague, but I hate setting hard limits. If you are into instagram influencers you probably arenāt as mature as Iād prefer and if you only write letters in cursive youāre probably tooā¦.seasoned for me. Again, this is flexible.
What Iām looking for: Call it an affair if youād like. But Iām not looking for a love affair, and not necessarily a physical one. I do enjoy sexting and fantasizing but thatās not necessarily my goal as I already have online friends for that and am looking to fill other holes in my life (pun intended). Iām really just looking for a good local friend to chat with daily and if thereās an attraction there that develops and flirting happens Iām willing to see where it goes.
I very much do prefer someone local. Iām willing to chat with someone outside of the area, but for the sake of what Iām looking for I donāt see that working out long term unless we really hit it off. Iād like to have the option to meet in person if the right connection is made. If not, Iād like to at least find a good local online only friend.
Soā¦thatās a pretty narrow window that Iām looking for, but thatās what I want.
If you can tolerate a goofy, middle-aged chubby nerdy dad with awkward social skills then please hit me up. Iām looking forward to making a good friend!
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