The great philosophers Jake and Elwood once said “Everybody, needs somebody.. Everybody, needs somebody” and with that, I am a 56 year old man from California and other places over the years who is looking for someone, a unique woman, smart and with a touch of sass, fun to spend time with and true to herself and those around her. Introvert preferred but not a deal breaker, a woman who enjoys a night in on the couch and a movie, cares about her health, is there for me and knows that I am there for her, looking for the first voice I hear in the morning and the last voice at days end as we say goodnight.

Interests on my end are varied yet simple, I enjoy travel and roadtrips, cooking and photography, writing and music, films, reading and coffee, can be found on a nice day off at the beach with my feet in the sand and just enjoying the waves. I am 420 friendly but don’t smoke and rarely drink. I am a jeans and t-shirt guy, and more of a homebody generally but love a good day at a street fair or just roaming thrift stores or a great garage sale.. Bonus points for sense of humor and fans of puns and Dad jokes, transparency is a big thing with me. Please mention your favorite 80’s song or band in your response so I know you read this completely.

At the end of the day, to paraphrase The Blues Brothers we all are looking for someone to connect with and continue to grow with. I completely understand that you only see this as words on a screen, so let’s chat and see how we vibe and take things from there, naturally and organically and see..

Location is not a factor but must be USA/Canada based no exceptions, age is also not a factor be it an age gap or no gap at all, it’s all about who you are as a person, and how we mesh together that matters most to me.

I am looking to start here then move to discord or something for voice chat once we have chatted here for a bit first. Your DM should tell me about you with age and geo location (and the 80’s band or song too) and your interests, your picture gets mine in response.

Im not open to crypto, and I will not send you itunes or target gift cards for your neighbors grandmother’s surgery or what ever garbage scam is the latest trend so no thank you, don’t waste energy on me if you are not real, thanks! If you are real, what are ya waiting for? Get that chat invite going, and let me hear about you! :) Looking forward to hearing from you!