So here's the deal, I've had an absolutely incredible second half of the year, and l've been itching to share some of these wins and joys with someone, so here I am lol. I'm absolutely killing it in school first of all, and I have finaly found my place in vet med which is probably my biggest win. My finals just ended and I'm already planning on my next steps (after a well deserved break). More on this if/when someone decides to drop me a line (gotta stay realistic ya know?). And I got to see Evanescence live right up front in the pits, which was a dream come true for my inner teenager. 🖤🤘🏻

Even though im single, I do not expect to find a partner here right away, however the intention is very much there to build something. I'm a bit of a slow burn being demi. I just want to meet a new alt pal to hang out with sometimes, share music, watch shows, and get high, without any expectations ya know?. I'm very "green" , LGBTQ friendly, childfree and absolutely love animals. In August, I adopted an absolutely adorable cat and he's definitely been an amazing first cat for me ❤️(the grey one is my boy). I've accumulated a huge collection of hobbies, interests, and activities, both indoorsy and outdoorsy. I'm 59, 160 ish lbs, long black curly hair, a beard, glasses, and have tattoos, with plenty more in my future, and I also just got my eyebrow pierced . I don't believe in gender conformity nor do I believe in gender specific hobbies or roles. . It's open season for whatever piques my curiosity in that moment. Also I have usually tested as INTP or INTJ so I swing between the two like a pendulum lol. I'm also highly pragmatic and mostly operate on curiosity and logic. also love pebbling (irrespective of whether it's a romantic partner or not).

As far as school goes, I have a plan for the next few years which involves me studying a lot more than I initially planned on doing. Currently studying to become a veterinary technical assistant, but the end goal is to become a registered tech in surgery. Most of my life l've had a penchant for STEM subjects, but never had an opportunity to formally pursue education in the field, till now 😊. I already have a degree, kinda redoing life on my terms. l'm also no contact with my birth family, and have a chosen one instead , so no more walking on eggshells. It's been a long hard road to recovery for me, so I do feel like it's important to mention that I do have complex - ptsd, however it is very much managed and under control. And last but not least, my particular flavor of neurodivergence is audhd , and live with chronic pain, fibromyalgia(this is where the w**d comes in), I have my own house, a car and a life full of adventures 😁.

You : Please be single, and childfree. 25 and location does not matter. also don't like texting for too long so calls are preferred please and ty. I'm also monogamous, and not dominant in any way at all (for those who care about this). And last but not least, I believe in effective communication versus constant communication, so there's never any expectation or pressure to give timely responses. I'd rather someone take the time to respond properly "when they can" instead of getting a half hearted response.

P S ⁃ not my cat in the first picture lol. But we do share the same name 😂. The grey one is my boy Percy 🤍.