This is how these things usually go for me…

Someone sends me an intro statement message. So I look at their profile and it’s blank so I only say hi back. They say hey back. I say hey. Then the conversation dies.

Or …

Someone sends an intro statement message. So I look at their profile and ask a question about something on there. They respond and ask what about you. I answer and ask another question. They respond and ask what about you. I answer and ask another question. They respond and ask what about you. So I respond without asking a question. Then the conversation dies.

Or…

Someone sends an intro message and asks a question. So I say hi back, answer the question, and ask a question. They answer the question. So I ask another question. They answer the question. I ask another. They answer. Then the conversation dies.

Do you see where the problem lies? If you do, we might actually get along.

I know a lot of people tend to fill these things out with a lot of cool interests, hobbies, and what they want the other person to like. I don’t really care about all that stuff. I don’t think we need to like the same things to be able to build a connection. I’ll respect your hobbies, you respect mine, and maybe they can eventually overlap (or not, it’s ok).

There are things that are important to me that should be to you too. Monogamy should be your default setting once a relationship is established. You should be emotionally, legally, and physically single. I get that times are hard and rent is expensive but if you still live in the same residence as your ex, that’s a no for me. I understand you are legally separated, but that really just means you are legally still married. Oh, your divorce is in the court process? You are legally still married.

I have a preferred age limit of mid 30s to mid/late 40s, but as long as your age starts with either a 3 or 4 we are good. I’m done having children so if you are interested in me you should have zero desire to have any more kids (or any at all if you don’t have any). I have two, 23 and 11. Nobody i date meets them unless the relationship gets to a move in/get married status.

I tend to be a lot more happy, lighthearted, and silly in real life or once I’m feeling safe and secure with someone online. There’s stuff on my profile that gives more info about me if you wanna know more. Plus there’s a pic of me too.

Here’s to hearing from you!