About Me:

38.Mom. Eastern European. Jedi in spirit. Ahsoka Tano fan because, like her, I stay true to my values while navigating the chaos of life. I also have a soft spot for Studio Ghibli and anime, because who doesn’t love a little whimsy?

I’m resilient, hard-working, and ambitious—but not in the corporate ladder sense, more the “I’ll build my own damn ladder” kind. I know what I want, and I’m not stopping until I get it. Determined, passionate, and unapologetically driven.

Also kind, sensitive, and empathetic (yes, I can cry over cute cat videos and organize your life at the same time).

I thrive on affection and cuddles (I love giving and receiving them). I feel that actions always speak louder than words.

Communication and clarity are my non-negotiables, so if you’re someone who can keep the conversation going and show up consistently, you’re my kind of person.

Physically:

I’m 5’4, with a proportionate, average build. I have green eyes and auburn hair, and I like to think I’m pretty. I’m genuine, natural, and confident in my own skin.

The Fun Stuff:

Sci-fi nerd at heart. The Empire Strikes Back is my favorite Star Wars movie, and I’m always up for a good “why Ahsoka is the best” debate.

I’m terrible at gaming, but I have a Switch Lite to force myself to expand my horizons. Right now, my skills are limited to planting virtual carrots, so please keep your expectations low.

Music? Almost anything because my playlist changes with the weather and my mood, so you never know what you’ll get.

Obsessed with reading fantasy and smutty stories (yes, I said smutty… don’t pretend you don’t have a spicy side). {note: I’m not here for a hookup or indecent proposals, so let’s keep it SFW}

Family is everything to me.

Life Situation:

Out of a long marriage (don’t worry, the emotional baggage is packed, labeled, and stored in the attic).

Ready for a serious long-distance relationship that could translate to IRL if everything aligns—I’m willing to put in the effort if you are.

A homeschooling, work-from-home mom with a busy schedule. I’m a self-employed content writer who juggles parenting, homeschooling, and deadlines on a daily basis… and yes, I’ll still make time for you.

What I’m Looking For:

Age: 34-43

Looking for someone who’s present, involved, stable, kind and preferably 6’ tall or more (no offense, but I just need to reach up when we kiss).

An emotionally present man who knows how to communicate and can make me laugh until my cheeks hurt. If you’re sarcastic and witty, we’ll get along great.

Ideally, you’re from the UK or Ireland because those accents are irresistible (and yes, maybe I’ve read a bit too much smut, but hey, a girl can dream).

If you’re into sci-fi and fantasy, we’ll have plenty to nerd out over together. Nerds are hot, so don’t be shy about embracing your geeky side.

Dealbreakers:

I’m looking for someone who can communicate clearly, knows what they want, and isn’t just browsing for attention.

If you’re into heavy drinking, smoking, or drugs, emotionally immature, caught up in your past, or insecure, we won’t work. Dishonesty, disloyalty, or a history of cheating? Hard pass.

How This Works:

Let’s start slow, online long-distance relationship with no pressure.

BUT: constant communication is a must. I want someone who’s excited to share their day, their dreams, and their bad jokes with me. I want to share things with you and I need you to share things with me, too! We could build something meaningful, but first, let’s just talk.

What I want is that spark… the one that makes me want to do crazy things like book a flight or wear matching sweaters. If you can bring that, you’ve already won me over.