Hello Reddit,

I’m a 36-year-old woman from Central Europe (yes, my first language is German), and I’m here with a straightforward purpose: I’m looking for a partner. Not a pen pal, not a casual acquaintance, and definitely not a “let’s see where this goes” scenario. I’m ready for a meaningful, fulfilling relationship with someone who’s equally clear about what they want.

A little about me:

Standing tall at 185 cm (6’1”), I’m curvy and confident enough to know that real connections happen when two people can truly talk. I love deep conversations, whether they’re intellectually challenging, hilariously absurd, or somewhere in between. My downtime often involves audiobooks—crime thrillers, mostly—though I rarely manage to crack the case before the big reveal.

When I’m not chasing imaginary criminals, you’ll find me hiking with my tiny-but-mighty dog, experimenting with knitting projects (cue tangled yarn disasters), or indulging in quiet moments with coffee or tea. I also adore traveling, especially to northern regions. While lounging on a beach has its appeal, I’d much rather explore new cities, walk along rugged coastlines, or stumble upon local treasures.

I’ve never been married, I don’t have kids, and I’m not looking to change that. I know what I want in life, and it doesn’t include parenthood—just putting that out there from the start.

What I’m looking for in you: • You’re emotionally ready for a relationship and know how to communicate it. • You enjoy conversations that go beyond “How was your day?” and can hold your own in discussions that are both light and meaningful. • You’re consistent—whether we’re texting, planning a weekend adventure, or just talking about life.

Bonus points if: • You appreciate intelligence and humor over appearances. • You’re ready to meet me halfway and build something we’re both excited about.

If any of this resonates, I’d love to hear about you! Tell me about your passions, your go-to travel destination, or the thing that lights you up the most. Let’s skip the guessing games and see if we click.

Looking forward to finding the right person to share this adventure with!

Cheers!