Hello there! After 14 years of marriage, life has settled into a routine, and I’m ready to find a spark that brings back the butterflies. I’m seeking a discreet online connection—something deeper than just casual conversation, but strictly virtual. I’m not here to change anyone’s situation, just looking for a “pocket girlfriend” to match my “pocket boyfriend” vibe and keep things fun and exciting.

About Me: I’m 6’1”, 220 pounds, with salt-and-pepper hair, a beard, and deep brown eyes behind glasses—people say they’re captivating. I have a dad bod (despite not being a dad), and I’m a mix of nerdy with a love for the outdoors. Big car enthusiast here too! I’m an open book and have been told I have a great sense of humor. I’m someone who wears my heart on my sleeve and enjoys connecting on a real, emotional level.

About You: I’m hoping you’re confident, kind, funny, and have a great sense of humor. Ideally, you live in the Central Time Zone or nearby, for easier communication. I’m drawn to women 30 , but if you’re under 30 and we click, I’m open to it. If you’ve got tattoos or piercings, that’s a major plus—I think they’re incredibly sexy. I’m also looking for someone who’s available to chat during the weekdays, especially during work hours. Looks aren’t everything to me, but mutual attraction matters, so I’m happy to exchange pics early on to see if we vibe.

What I’m Seeking: I want the full experience of an online affair: the sweet good morning/goodnight messages, flirty chats, meaningful conversations, and when the time is right, some spice. I’m looking for that perfect balance—whether it’s a slow burn or an explosion, I’m open to wherever our connection takes us. Most importantly, I want to build a relationship that brings excitement back into the everyday.

If any of this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. Shoot your shot, and let’s see where this journey takes us! Stay blessed, and I hope to hear from you soon.