Liberal, compassionate, empathic woman seeks a lovely man with similar qualities. Please be someone who works on yourself, always striving to be your best self, while acknowledging that we'll never actually be our best selves. (I'm always trying, but I'm still a damn mess, and you'll get the same considerations.) My (well-paid, ahem) friends say I'm sweet, wise, intelligent, insightful, introspective, and wickedly funny. I like sci fi, animals (volunteer with a dog and cat rescue), helping people (in training to volunteer at the Crisis Text Hotline), painting (acrylics), and woodcarving (my knives are very, very sharp... mwah hah haaa). Word nerd, but I won't pedantically correct your grammar. Clearly, I also am fond of parenthetical statements.
I ultimately want healthy interdependence with a partner. Solid, open, honest (but tempered with kindness!) communication is foundational. I want to know you, and be known by you. I want us both to feel safe just being ourselves, and let our facades fall off, as we learn we can trust each other. I'm very snuggly, and hope you enjoy all forms of physical affection, too. (Yes, sex is wonderful, that's included in the previous statement -- however if that's all you're looking for, I'm not your person.) Supporting each other in good times and hard ones is what a partner is for, in my world.
Being an introverted house mouse hasn't gotten me very far in the dating world. And we all know OLD sites are not set up for success. I am also quite curvy and very short, and recognize not all men are into that; to each their own. I'm not for everyone; no one is. I prefer dating someone closer to my age (40s to 60s). Sorry, no smokers. Please be local enough to meet on a regular basis.
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