As I quietly ponder about what could be a good title, not too flashy so I won't draw the wrong attention, a little whimsical as a first filter, although this is not my first time posting (just the second) I feel my heart throbbing and my hands shaking as I type, and smile.

This is how being alive feels.

There is really nothing extra exciting to say about me, 5'5, curvy, giggly, and nerdy. I like to read, bake, I adapt well into indoors and outdoors all the same.

I don't do good with lies, I have no interest in young boys who might see me as a kink, I am looking for a LDR/IRL but I don't expect this to be in my city, for the right person, I'll go great lenghts.

Now, cards on the table. I have 2 kids, I am divorced (both kids from the same dad, I have no contact with him) I love myself, love my kids, love my life, love my job, hate the weather here. I am open to the possibility of making someone else happy. I know my worth and I value the hardwork. I am not afraid of getting down to business and I am a quite efficient person, sharp thinker.

Please, don't waste our time if you are looking for a FWB, I am not interested. There are lots of things I offer, but that is not one of those.

I wish I could find a friend but I have learn that friendship usually require hanging out together, having more friends in common and that is tricky.

I love to read, I love all sort of movies (the weirder, the better), I love to cook and all geek stuff.

What I am looking for? Someone close to my age, with stability, who knows himself and what he wants, who is independent and happy. If you have a passion, I wanna hear all about it, if you had a good or bad day I will cherish and comfort, if you are bored I'll think something fun for us to do. I'll invest in the same way I see you invested.

I am extremly open minded, I don't judge, rather try to learn from people and their's oerspective, if you message me a "Hi" I will not reply since I am taking my time to write this, an elaborated message is always a great way to start.

It is possible that it takes me a while to respond the messages, this is no sprint, I am not "seeking" something, I am enjoying this process, the adventure I am about to start and I never rush into things.

PLEASE Only single/divorced. Not looking for "divorcing, is complicated, dead bedroom" but thank you for reading, good luck on that.

I promise I won't ghost/block. I take people seriously and I am an adult. If I feel like there is no chemistry, I'll thank you and let you know. Is ok, not everybody likes me and I will not like everyone.

Thank you for reading my rambling Ted Talk and you may start by letting me know if you got the reference from.my title and talk about it or, just tell me what is your favorite book and why. ✨