43 year old, single woman from PA. I’m not even sure what I’m looking for. I don’t think I’m ready to actually date. I’m working on healthy habits and losing weight and fixing my finances. I feel like I don’t want to date until I’ve accomplished those things. But I think I would like like-minded people to talk to.

Looking for someone that shares similar political and worldviews, religious beliefs, morals, etc. I am liberal. The earth is round. Climate change is real. Woman should have the right to bodily autonomy. All people regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, socioeconomic status, etc. have the right to basic human rights, including to identify how they choose, to love and marry who they choose, etc. These are truths I believe in and they aren’t up for debate. I’m non-religious and consider myself apatheistic.

Don’t bother leaving comments about me being wrong or that I’m going to die alone because of my views. I’d rather die alone than be with someone who doesn’t believe I have the right to choose for my own body, is racist, a conspiracy theorist, a Christian nationalist, etc.

I consider myself demisexual, which means I need an emotional connection before I become intimate with someone. If you’re looking to sext or talk about sex, I’m not interested.

As I said, I’m not necessarily interested in more than a conversation right now, but I do have a non-negotiable list of requirements for a partner. I’d be glad to discuss them if you’re interested. They aren’t anything that I don’t also do, have, etc.

I like to:

Cook and bake.

Read and collect books. I’m working on building my own library. I currently have 358 books on my shelves.

Travel when I can afford to, explore new places, try new restaurants, learn new things.

Watch tv/movies, listen to music, go to concerts.

Play card/board games and put puzzles together.

Do arts and crafts. I’ve especially been into book nooks this past year.

Enjoy a night in as much as a night out. I’m not a big drinker or party animal, but I like to go out to eat, go bowling, mini golf, anything fun like that.

I can’t think of anything else at the moment. If you share similar views and any of this sounds interesting to you, let’s talk.