Hello!

I'm here because I've had success with forming a meaningful Friendships from this subreddit before- and while it didn't work out in the long run, it's shown me that it is absolutely possible to find that spark here.

In an effort to not waste your time nor mine, I'm not here seeking a casual chat- I want to get to know someone close to my age beyond just a few exchanges. I'm here for a genuine connection

So, why message me? Good question! I'm rather shy, self-depreciating, and modest- so trying to talk myself up is honestly really difficult. Instead, here are some random things about me and if any of it interests you, strikes a chord, or makes you smile, then I probably can, too!

• I live in the south of England but I have previously lived in Scotland, Austria, and Lithuania, which were all for work

• I have a degree in Chemistry and a Master's in Drug design and biomedical science. I work as an analytical chemist which is more boring than it sounds

• I am into photography and some photos can that I have taken can be found here. I also travel often, and I have recently been to Berlin, NYC, Prague, and Copenhagen

• Empire is the best Star War.

• Last Crusade is the best Indiana Jones.

• And because it's important to some- I am not skinny, never have been, nor do I think I ever will be- but I do want to feel better, both physically and mentally. I've been using noom for the past few months and I'm actually really proud of my progress! I of course have slip-ups and a long way to go still before I'm happy with myself, so I think it would be nice to have someone in my life with the same goals to help motivate me and push me when I need it most.

So what now? Introduce yourself, share a photo to I can put a face to the words, tell me 5 random things about you, or 5 things on your bucket list, or the first 5 things you'd do if you won the lotto- or anything at all you'd like to share. Have animals? Show me pics!

Lastly, I know it's hard to take the time to write a thoughtful message on the chance that it may go unanswered. I'm not here for a lot of messages. I don't want to waste anyone's time, so if I don't reply then know that I'm rooting for you to find the person you're hoping for, too!