Dating at this age feels a lot like a round of golf or being at the airport….(love golf and travel)

Golf: Sometimes you hit a few rough patches, occasionally you’re stuck in a bunker, or have to deal with a hazard but when you hit that sweet spot and get in the zone, it’s pure magic and totally worth it.

Airport: It’s not the ones with baggage that worry me, it’s the ones without 🤔 Don’t worry though, small carry-on here — light, manageable and easy to handle.

Here’s the deal: I’m educated, empathetic, can easily hold up my end of a conversation and I’ve been told I have a sharp wit, but don’t worry, I dish it out with a side of charm. I thrive on trying new things — always looking for my next adventure, whether it's a weekend road trip, finding that hidden gem of a restaurant (love food), or simply wandering into a pub trivia night. Let’s be real though, pub trivia solo just looks like a guy yelling answers to himself. With a partner? Suddenly, I’m a trivia champion.

When I’m not playing golf or working on my tennis/pickleball game (spoiler alert: I’m getting there), I’m either hanging out with my kids or figuring out where my next adventure will take me. Switzerland, Costa Rica, and a return trip to Italy are high on my bucket list. Bonus points if you can speak Italian, or at least help me not butcher it when I order pasta. And hey, if you’ve got some travel stories to swap, I’m all ears.

I’m pretty active and if I’m not outdoors, you’ll probably find me in the kitchen, cooking up something good, or tackling a DIY project around the house (yes, I’m that guy who actually enjoys fixing things).

I truly appreciate the balance between a laid-back weekend (Netflix and takeout, anyone?) and the thrill of a spontaneous plan (like, “Hey, let’s go hiking!”). If you’re up for some outdoor fun, love good food, and can keep up with a little witty banter, we’re probably going to get along just fine.

What am I looking for?

Someone who’s equally enthusiastic about living fully and freely but also knows how to appreciate a quiet evening in. You love outdoor activities? Great! I’m all about hikes, runs, and spontaneous “hey, let’s do something outside” moments.

I’ve got a long list of places I’d love to explore and, let’s be honest, everything’s more fun with a travel buddy. I’m looking for someone who’s authentic and doesn’t mind spending an evening debating whether pineapple belongs on pizza (it doesn’t, but I’m open to discussions).

A few things you should know:

I’m dating with intention. I’ve put in the self-work, so I’m not here to fill a void, or for someone to “complete” me — I’m looking for a partner to complement me, someone who adds to life’s richness, a true partner in every sense.

I’m not in a rush to settle for something that’s just "okay." I’m looking for real connection, built on respect, chemistry, and a lot of laughter.

I already have a mother and a therapist, so no need to step into those roles. Let’s focus on building something fun and genuine.

Bonus points if you appreciate sarcasm, love banter, and enjoy exchanging funny memes.

If you’re someone who values authenticity (I know, hard to find these days), loves a good adventure, and isn’t afraid of the quiet moments that truly connect us, then let’s see where this goes.

Nice work on making it this far, kind of got in a good rhythm there, if any of this resonates, let’s chat and maybe swap a travel story or your favorite way to unwind at the end of a day. And if not, thanks for reading, and I hope you find what you’re looking for.