Are you a chatty Cathy who likes texting throughout the day? Do you enjoy a night out getting drinks and dinner as much as you enjoy a night in cooking or ordering out and watching sports or TV? Are you ambitious, and hardworking? Is there something you're passionate and we'll informed about that you like talking about or teaching? Can you maintain a perpetual conversation, one that may start as shallow as spilled milk but runs as deep as space and as long as time? Are you equal parts serious and silly? Are you equal parts sweet and spicy? Do you like plants and gardening? Do you have Spotify so that we can create a blend playlist? (I'm writing this while listening to some Kota The Friend, Smino, and Earthgang) Are you a little reserved at times, yet can rock a room at times? Are you a little ADHD and or OCD? Are you self aware? Are you comfortable with being imperfect, or humble in your perfection? Are you (mostly) comfortable in your skin? Are you comfortable being flirty and sexy?

Well if you are any or all of those things, don't be shy send a message my way. I'm 38, single, never married, no children, open to changing that but I'm not real rush for either. I'm looking to get to know you, I would prefer you're local to Chicago and are interested in a (monogamous) relationship. I'm open to chat with you and see how it goes if you live elsewhere, I've up and moved a few times in my life. While I'm not completely against the idea of a LDR, as I would eventually like to be able to hang out somewhat regularly. I've always enjoyed meeting people online, although I don't have much of a problem making friends out of strangers. My default settings are pretty introverted however, I can turn up the extrovert.

A bit more about me; teddy bear build, I'd say it's cliché yet fair to say tall dark and handsome lol. Somethings people have said about me, that I'd agree with; I'm smart, funny, hardworking, passionate, handsome, ambitious, silly AF, stoic, not always a picnic, sweet, thoughtful, wild, calculated risk taker, and a would be good father (somewhat indifferent to having children though) to list a few. I recently landed a ne job to further my career in an industry I've worked hard to enter and have climbed pretty well in. I am also in the midst of launch my own small business.

If these, well constructed, ramblings have piqued your interest shoot me a chat. When you message me please let me know what you're currently listening to, watching, or let me know what you liked in this post. Ultra bonus points if you open with a pic or voice note answering the above questions to make sure you are real and I will happily do the same. Absolutely non negotiables; must be willing to exchange pics, I like putting a face to the person on the other side of the screen. I am willing to switch communication platforms to Discord or exchanging numbers only. The NFSW tag is only because one is required. I'm not opposed to some flirting and NFSW conversation after some connection, familiarity and trust is established.