Honestly, I used to like the whole intense feeling of excitement but eventually realized it's not sustainable. I need something chill and slow and "real". So if you're up for a slow burn, and despise gender roles, we'll get along well 😊.

Even though im single, i do not expect to find a partner here right away. Plus with me being back in college the next 4 months, my emotional availability is not guaranteed, so it's easier if you don't come in expecting a romantic relationship. I just want to meet a new alt pal to hang out over calls, or video sometimes, share music, watch shows, and get high lol, with absolutely no expectations of anything more. I'd rather go with the flow and feel the vibes when we interact. I'm very 420 Friendly, don't drink, LGBTQ friendly, childfree, monogamous, and absolutely love animals. I recently adopted most lovable kitty ever who wakes me up with cuddles and purring 😻. I've accumulated a huge collection of hobbies, interests, and activities, both indoorsy and outdoorsy. I'm 5'9, 160 ish lbs, long black curly hair, glasses, and have tattoos, with plenty more in my future. I'm here) generally a very happy person am most definitely not looking for someone to make me happy or feel better, more like someone who is in the same place and we can feed off of each others happy feels. I also understand bad days happen and that's ok too, I don't believe on toxic positivity so having bad days is also a part of life.

Things I really appreciate in someone are : being able to understand and respect Boundaries, effective communication, lack of games, direct communication vs hints and cues (don't blame me if I don't catch any of em lol) and last but not least, basic human decency.

Couple weeks ago I got back from an absolutely incredible trip to Minnesota, where i attended the renaissance fest, valley fair, arboretum, an impromptu concert, and the state fair. Most of the pics up ther are from the trip 😁. As far as school goes, I already have a degree, kinda redoing life on my terms and following my lifelong dream of working in vet med. I'm also no contact with my birth family, and have a chosen one instead 🖤, so no more walking on eggshells. My flavor of neurodivergence is audhd, and live with chronic pain and fatigue, aka fibromyalgia (this is where the w**d comes in), have my own house, a car and a life full of adventures 😁. Also have 2 concerts coming up in Sep and October.

You : please be single, and childfree. location does not matter, but I do reside in Canada. I also don't like texting for too long so calls are preferred please and ty.