I'm just looking for my person, ya know? Someone with shared interests and similar values who wants to build a life and grow old together. I am highly affectionate, maybe a little clingy, but loyal, fun, and smart. I think I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I’m not without baggage, but honestly, who isn’t? I am constantly trying to improve myself, and I don’t need to be rescued or fixed—just supported and loved.

I like gaming, music, anime, reading, and baking. I am definitely an introvert; I would prefer a night inside playing video games and eating snacks versus going out.

I’m caucasian, blue-eyed, brunette, tall (5’11”), and plus-sized (Over 350lbs)- with a large tummy and ass. No, I will not immediately send you nudes. I know my body type is a fetish and while attraction is essential in any relationship, I don’t want my weight to be the cornerstone of connection. I’m also in the process of losing weight, with bariatric surgery on the horizon. So, being supportive of that choice is kind of essential. (I am preparing to look like a deflated Jabba.)

As for what I like… a soft/Daddy-type Dom in the day-to-day. I’m into kink, yes, (We can talk about this more when the time is right.) but it comes second to finding good chemistry and building an emotional connection with someone. The right man for me would be mature with emotional intelligence and stability; and be ready to be in a committed, long-term relationship. I am looking to build trust and grow in a relationship, not interested in penpals, FWB, or ONS.

Age is just a number but I think 30 would be best. I have children, you can too or not. But understand they are part of the package. While I am not looking for someone to step in and help raise them; being respectful and understanding of parenthood as a priority is a must.

I like banter, intelligence, wit. Someone who can’t hold their own in a conversation or has no common interests will probably fall flat.

Lastly, monogamy is my jam and while I respect ENM relationships and couples, I’m not looking to share. So, if you're in a relationship, whether it's ethical, complicated, or not… Please just don’t waste your time or mine. If any of this seems like a good fit for you, send me a message.