A curious and compassionate intellectual. An incessant scholar with a blue collar upbringing and a white collar career. A sometimes storyteller, sometimes counselor, and sometimes teacher. I am in search of a partner who wants to join me in building an occasionally adventurous, but often cozy, and always intentional life.

Quiet, reserved, and intense are words that other people have used to describe me. They're probably right, but it is also true that I'm a hopeless romantic with a well-developed, sardonic sense of humor. I listen with the intent to understand, but will openly challenge behaviors and thinking that I consider ineffective or destructive. I am self-disciplined, empathetic, understanding, and patient, but firm. I avoid crowds and crave intimacy.

I am genuinely single, very highly educated, progressive, and health-conscious. I have one adult child. Just a bit over average height with a slim-fit physique. A full head of brown hair with some grey in my beard (when I have one). You can find a couple recent pics here.

Pros of dating me are that I'm a good cook and have a great voice. I will validate your feelings without trying to solve all your problems. Cons are that I can't dance and can be detached at times.

I have hobbies and interests, a career, and future plans. I also have some spicier interests that aren't entirely appropriate for this sub. I have posted a much longer and more detailed bio in my profile if you are interested in learning about any of those things. It's not required reading, but it's there if you need more than this brief ad.

I look forward to hearing from you if this appeals to you. I am looking for partners who are interested in and capable of meeting in-person; online-only relationships are just not my thing.

Happy hunting to you all.