I've always felt more comfortable around the weirdos, nerds, deviants, and the authentically abnormal thinkers. Problem is, as my favourite ex-girlfriend has often said, "You look like a choirboy!", despite my best intentions to be otherwise. I've dabbled in BDSM, tried an intro to Shibari course, accidentally hosted an orgy, enjoyed more than one cuddlepuddle, navigated a couple polyamorous situations...and that's just the sexy stuff.

On the more vanilla side of things, I've travelled a fair bit (not enough), been diagnosed with inattentive ADHD (wanna chase dopamine with me?), come to grips with my ageing self and picked up glasses and hearing aids (10 years as a DJ means I blew out some of my listening-bits), and there's still some time left on the clock. I'd like to spend that time doing interesting stuff with unique people.

I used to be a video store assistant manager, so I'm a movie nerd, and love any excuse to host a movie night. Cocktail enthusiast who enjoys a Dark & Stormy or an Old Fashioned on occasion. I do keep a few extra libations around in case a guest would enjoy something different.

I'm woke, but it's not part of my personality, and I've realized that there are more shades of grey than I originally wanted there to be. I still believe that everyone is equal, love is love, and your right to do whatever you want ends where that stuff starts to negatively affect others.

What am I looking for? Someone (or multiple someones) who want to find adventure within the city, on a road trip, and/or overseas. A people (or peoples) who'd like to scratch items off their bucket (or fuckit) list. Open-minded folks who aren't convinced of their own superiority, who understand that nobody's the main character of this story, open-minded and curious, and someone who faces new experiences with curiosity and cleverness.

Deeply disinterested in sports, but happy to break out the paddleboard and go float somewhere. I'm an empty nester, so those with young kids need not apply. I'm sure you're super cool, but young'uns just don't factor in my life anymore, and I like to be able to be spontaneous.

If any of this tickled your thinky-meat, fire me message. The worst thing I could say is "Ew."

(I won't say "ew", that's just rude. I'll ghost you, like a real man.)