Are you a married women who feel lonely in your marriage feel like the sparks and connection you had once is missing .The day and conversation with spouse is just a routine everyday .You do a lot for family and it's never enough and never appreciated. Are you missing the spark? The passion? The obsession? The craving for another? I may be able to help that ... Looking for someone who wants to build a relationship, makes me laugh, wants to talk about each others days and share things you don’t tell may other people.

A conversation, a joke, maybe a spark in time. No rush, I’m looking for a gradual organic meaningful connection. I’m an active man with many interests. Be 18 , just be kind and I’ll be the same. Looking to build on a connection.

So yay, pessimism aside, I am a forty two year old father married and lonely. It's funny how you can be in a house full of people and still feel utterly alone. I'm an extroverted introvert so sometimes it's great but I miss the connection. I spend a lot of time doing pretty much Everything for my family and at the end of the day i'm the one sitting with no one beside me.

I want someone that is my person. I want to hear about your day to day life and share mine with you as well. I have an abundant amount of time to talk throughout my workday and have a decent amount of time to chat when I’m home. I would like to find someone that has the ability to chat all day as well. I like to have a good balance of sexual and normal chat. I do like to form a connection and make sure we’re compatible before it progresses to the sexual side.

I miss conversations. I miss feelings. I miss excitement. I want a secret pocket friend. I want to send good morning texts and receive them. I want to fight sleep to stay awake because I want to talk to you longer. I want to make you feel wanted and appreciated. I want butterflies. I'm not afraid of catching feelings. But I'm not leaving my husband or blowing up my life.

Also hoping for a sexual connection at some point, but it isn't my main focus. But I am kind of kinky, and a well placed good girl will always be appreciated. I enjoy the idea of gardening but I also get really tired and don't have the energy to do a garden. I have a great job that I love. I really like podcasts and audiobooks. Im My love languages are acts of service and physical touch. But my neurodiverse love languages are info dumping and meme sharing.

So if you like what you read, please come say hi. Let's build a connection. I do have other platforms and will move to them after a connection is made.