Hello!, I'm a 55-year-old African-American man who's happily married and enjoying life. I have a lot of free time during the day and I'd love to spend this time chatting with the right lady, preferably married and older than 21. I'm looking for an emotional bond that goes beyond the mundane small talk and dives into the depths of our true selves. Let's skip the superficial chit-chat and get real! And who knows, if the stars align, maybe we can even contemplate taking things to the next level and see where it leads us.

Just to be clear, I'm happily married and not looking to change that, and I'm not here to shake things up for you either. I just want to find a special lady who wants and craves excitement. And more importantly, who wants to share that sense of excitement with me.

Anyways, I'm a big fan of romance and you need to be too. So, if you're into daily texting, messaging, and voice messages (Discord), then we might hit it off. Communication is key for me, so I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to show their softer side and share their thoughts and feelings. I'm drawn to confident women especially those who embrace their sensual/sexual side. If you're someone who's open about your emotions and willing to express them openly, then we might just click. And I don't mind if you are a little needy or clingy, aren't we all in this case - lol.

Just to give you a visual, I'm 5'8, with a brown cocoa complexion, deep brown eyes, and short black/grey cropped hair. I've been told I'm good looking but that's really for you to decide. I'm not rocking a six-pack, just a typical dad bod. But what I lack in abs, I make up for in affection, romance, and sensuality. In terms of your appearance, you should be attractive, in reasonable shape, beautiful eyes, a winning smile and between 4'10" to 5'8".

If you've read this far and you believe we could be a good match, feel free to slide into my DMs or better yet, send a chat request. But please, give me a bit more than just a "hi" or "hello" to start off. I want to be intrigued and excited to get to know you better! So, tell me a little about yourself and please include your favorite go-to comfort show, movie or last song that got you to get and dance.