Some people may say that 40 is still young. I can hear my kid self rattling around in there somewhere, but so much has happened. I've seen love and hate, I've been used and appreciated, I've traveled and I've stayed at home. I'm a single mom, and feeling the easier side of things as they grow older, and I'm left with the emptiness I was always afraid of. I will never put that expectation on anyone else but myself, but it would be really nice to have a companion to do the last part with. The part where I watch my kids become independent adults, and figure out what else I want to do before I can't do it anymore. I've seen too many people not make it to retirement to wait for mine to start doing things I want to do. The dating apps are a joke, and I'm never going to go anywhere where someone will just magically walk up to me and ask me on a date. So I've found myself here, and I've really got nothing to lose at this point.
If you're looking for someone to talk to, meet, date, love?. I'd love to find someone that is compatible with me. I love movies and music. I'm trying to find the old me that loved cooking and baking before it became a chore. I want to travel, and go sightseeing. I want to talk to my person at the end of every day and fall asleep with them, because I've lived without it, and I know how valuable it is. Message me, and tell me your favorite memory, and the one memory you really want to make.
If you are emotionally unavailable, avoidantly attached, non-monogomous, I can tell you already that we are not compatible. So please don't waste your time, or my time.
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