Here we are again. Sitting in front of our PC or doom scrolling via our phone, searching for that something that we have yet to find this weekend. Hoping that maybe this time will be the one, or at least an enjoyable dalliance.

About Me:

·         44yo here from the Baltimore Metro area.

·         I’m in that cusp of Zenial/Oregon Trail Generation / Elder Millennial.

·         Divorced

·         Father of two teenagers who live with me.

·         Educated

·         Passionate about my career

·         I can be at times relatively busy due to work, kids, volunteering and am looking for someone who understands the chaos of single parenting.

·         I love to laugh, I am patient at times too patient, empathetic, caring, I still have that child-like wonder when I find new things, I can be series when needed while at other times my 12yrold self is still there.

·         I am an ENFJ-A

·         Gemini-Tarus Cusp & born in the year of the Monkey if you are into Astrology

·         Nerdy – Loves board games, reading, various IPs, deep diving subjects including history, politics, philosophy, theology, geography.

·         Lite cinephile –  I enjoy binging good shows, watching great films vintage, 80s, current, etc.

·         Foodie

·         Traveler – near and far

·         Enjoy museums, art galleries, concerts.

·         Outdoorsy – I enjoy hiking, canoeing, camping, etc.

·         Spiritual but not religious

·         Politically left of center  

·         Physically: 6’1 Brown Hair/Silver peppering, Brown/Hazel eyes, Dad-bod / work in progress, I do not live at the gym BUT I am starting to work at again.  I am not a bearded guy, it takes weeks to grow scruff lol.

·         I see a therapist, I have a doctor, and a dentist.

·         Drinks socially, does not smoke, 420 friendly (prefers edibles to smoking/vaping)

·         I enjoy equally curling up on the couch as well as going out.

·         I have 1 tattoo. I am ink and piercing friendly

What I am looking for:

·         36-48 (this is not finite

·         I would love to connect with someone that lives in my area or adjacent as my intent is to meet irl BUT I am not opposed to LDR if the stars align.

·         Single, Divorced, Widowed. Not looking to be your 2^nd, 3^rd, etc. NO ENM / POLY, no OAs

·         I am more than OK if you have children as I have my own – BUT I am not looking to have any more.

·         Has career

·         Has own hobbies/friends – Not looking for someone to be a complete mirror of each other’s hobbies/interests BUT I would love some overlap. I am looking forward to share my passions with my partner as I want them to share theirs with mine.

·         IE you have your shit together…. I know we are all on various points of this spectrum. As long as you are moving forward, not backward.

·         Therapy positive

·         Physically – as along as you are trying to take care of yourself, bettering yourself, being healthier. Believe me It’s a struggle, I’m right there too. I will admit I do have a thing for long hair.

·         Looking for daily texts, vms, phone calls, I want that connection again.

·         Politically - Center, Center/Left, Left. If you have a MAGA hat, are anti-abortion, do not support LGBTQ , or believe in the benefits of Regan-nomics please move along.

·         No Vegans please. I am foodie, I love to cook, it is one of my passions and love languages.

·         Has a sense of humor.

·         Misses making out.

Willing to exchange pictures after initial text exchanges. Also would like to move off of Reddit if things progress to apps like Discord, or even… gasp, being adults and actually texting/calling.

I hope you are having a good weekend. If any of this rings a bell, sings to you, moves you through the force, or even if you are just curious please feel free to reach out. What is the worse that could happen, we exchange messages and quickly burn out leading to one of us ghosting the other, you know standard Reddit operating procedures? Or maybe just maybe we will click, talk, meet, etc? The choice is yours.