This week is going to be a great week! Starting Monday off with a quiet walk in the beautiful British summer weather and it only gets better from here! This week I have the opportunity to live out one of my fantasies, my fetishes, and to experience something new!

Before we get into that we should cover off the background briefly. Something I’ve reflected on recently is the uncertainty and confusion I’ve approached here with and why it’s important to try to be clear about who I am and what I’m looking for. In the spirit of that I’m a cis male that has spent the last couple of years tumbling down the rabbit hole trying to understand the complexity that is gender and fetish, pretty convinced I was starting to identify as trans only to realise that I am more likely just a cross dresser with a feminisation and encouragement fetish and I’ve been exploring myself, unsure what’s me and what to share with others close to me. So I’ve taken the approach to try to find and understand myself online as I talk with others. In a way that’s better because I’ve had time to explore and understand more about myself before sharing that IRL on the other hand, it still isn’t great and I’m still not really clear on things.

That’s the background in a nutshell but what’s happening this week? Well this week kicks off our long term conversation together as we build up to a night of lingerie, pampering, and fun in my yet to be worn 38K bra. Before all that I need to get myself a new thong and that’s all part of the build up and excitement! It’s fun to try new things but even better so share that with someone else and build something together! So let’s take some time to get to know each other a little better and start with those foundation building questions. I love this or that questions so start by telling me whether you prefer the beach or the mountains and give me a few of your own. Let’s make this conversation the start of something exciting and new as we build something encouraging that lasts for a long time with lots of fun along the way!

I know I’m not for everyone, and that’s ok. There are plenty of people that will match out there, just hoping there is someone that clicks for me too :-)

Jess xx