I'm tired of lurking on here and not finding the rignt person. A few things about me: 1. Fairly Intelligent and capable of having regular, conversations. Decent sense of humor. 2. Seeking an AP that will be more than just a side piece to satisfy my "high libido". 3. Be capable and willing to actually go on real dates instead of expecting to just get together and screw in your backseat or only meet in hotels. 4. Physically fit. I am not a body builder or an iron man athlete, but take regular care of myself and battle against the dad bod as best I can. 5. Have some level of maturity and emotional intelligence 6. My schedule is flexible but I need some planning for meetups. Last minute plans rarely work for me. Brown, Asian Indian, 5'7" 180lbs. I enjoy reading, learning, listening to music, working out, cooking, listening to podcasts or audio book, laughing, and exploring new places. Im looking for a connection with someone closer to my age.