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So I'm turning 40 tomorrow and I'm not sad about turning 40. In fact, I have been excited for it! Ready to head into a new decade feeling fabulous. But after last night, I don't even want to go out anymore.
See, my friend's birthday is a week from mine and last year she asked me if I wanted to celebrate our birthdays separately or together and I said together since we have the same friend's, hobbies, etc. Well, long story short, I got so snubbed on my birthday last year that I didn't see or go out with her for a while.
We're a year later now and my birthday is tomorrow. I work Saturdays, so I took a half day PTO for Saturday to celebrate. One of our hobbies is having an event so I was like great! Well, last night she and I were at our Tuesday class together and she blurts out "I'm gonna celebrate my birthday Saturday too." After being snubbed last year, all I can think of is that I'm gonna be snubbed this year. I have a huge pit in my stomach. I don't even want to go out now. I told my daughter what happened since she was there last year and before I said much, she told me not to even bother going out.
I'm not one who cries a lot, but I nearly cried when she told me last night and I have been misty-eyed ever since. My gut is telling me to not even bother and my gut is always right.
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