She was one of the best chat partners I ever had. The conversation flowed effortlessly, without exception. Last night, we finally did what we both put off for so long. It had an expiration date (due to her circumstances, and it's not that she was married or attached) that was extended well beyond what we intended. I cried some tears afterward. The emptiness is still there and will be there for a little while to come. I've been through break ups and sudden ghosting (even when by any objective measure the conversation is going well), and I know that time will heal this. I have other chat partners, but I'm ready to move on and find someone new to get to know. Hopefully without an expiration date.
Meeting in person was always very unlikely to be in the cards with her, but I'm open to it with you if we click well enough. I enjoy deep conversations with the right company about almost anything. Some of my interests include traveling and exploring places (one of the things I'm most passionate about), walking in parks and on trails, mini golfing, old board and card games (such as Monopoly, Risk, and Uno), watching sports (particularly MLB, the NFL, and the Olympics), politics and current events, and taking drives and road trips.
Whatever kind of connection we end up with, from platonic friends to casual dating to a relationship, would be rewarding. There are a few dealbreakers for me: cigarette smokers, heavy drug users (marijuana OK although I don't partake), and poor conversationalists.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
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