Hello there! I’ve recently decided to take my romantic life as serious as my professional life. However, dating apps have been kinda disappointing for many reasons, but mainly because I live in a very small town with a very conservative culture, in my opinion.

The relevant about me: I’m single, childfree (firmly decided), never married, independent and very square with my non-negotiables.

According to my BFF, the following are the most annoying aspects of me:

1. I don’t like dogs.

2. I like cats, I enjoy their fluffy but elegant and quiet company; but in my opinion, animals are just animals, so you’ll never see me talking or screaming to them like if they understand a thing.

3. I prefer indoor activities. I have a very sensitive skin so I don’t enjoy sun and hot weather.

4. I’m into the spectrum. “Highly functional” meaning I can perfectly handle a party, reunion with friends or fun activities; but “weird” in some aspects considered out of the norm, meaning I don’t like hugs or touching people, I don’t enjoy loud environments, dogs barking, motorcycles (I carry my headphones all the time), etc.

5. I feel very uncomfortable with accumulation of things. The less things, the better. Just the necessary.

6. I’m very hypocrite with the previous point, because I have many shoes, bags and a huge closet (ordered by type and color).

7. I like to follow the rules, since I come from a family that always thought they were over the law and I know the consequences of that. Also following a routine in my life it’s very comfy for me, because I feel I cannot forget or fail in some activities, like in my work I always try to maintain order so I can control my to do’s and also is a very effective way to manage the regular stress in life.

8. I just feel attracted to single (because I don’t like to interfere in a current relationship), child-free (because I don’t like the idea of losing my individuality, independence and freedom to take my own decisions without affecting others), tall guys (because I like to wear very high heels sometimes and I don’t like to feel I’m carrying my son to kindergarten), I don’t like bald heads, I’m aware this can be considered very superficial, however as a guy told me once about women “I like what I like and I can’t force myself to like something I don’t”; Maybe is important to mention that I don’t feel offended if I’m not attractive for somebody, because I understand people have different taste for everything, maybe that’s why I’m very honest when I don’t like something.

9. Although I struggle with my very literal way of speaking, I’m working very hard to recognize sarcasm, metaphors and something that I classify as “slang meaning of real words” because sometimes people use some words as insults, when I just use words with a literal meaning.

10. BONUS: I had 2 long relationships, I learn a lot from them and I have nothing but good things to say about them; however, my last relationship left me with a lot of baggage about my emotional maturity that took me 4 years of self work and improvement to feel me ok again to fall inlove again.

I made 2 post before. The first one very vague and I received a lot of chat requests but from all kind of guys; then I decided to post again and be more specific; however, my election of words was (again) very misunderstood or very rude from me, I’m still deciding…

Good thing, I receive at least one good feedback and advice, so I decided to post again, trying to be more friendly and clear.

Attending the feedback, some good qualities I find in myself can be the following:

1. I can be very funny, it takes me a while to feel comfortable with new people, but as soon as I feel comfy I’m hilarious. This is something my BFF and my exes always told me.

2. I can be very affectionate, I don’t like to be disrespectful with personal space, but when you agree I can be in your pocket all the time.

3. I’m attractive enough. Not a supermodel at all, but I’m confident with myself so I can be very relaxed and easygoing sexy.

4. I consider myself intelligent, well educated and I have the theory that I can handle all kind of conversations as long as I find them interesting; A thing I like a lot about myself is, I’m not scared of telling you I’m completely ignorant about something, I’m gonna be glad to learn new topics all the time.

5. I enjoy when people talk about their passions, the most sexy men, in my opinion, are those that can have long conversations about what they love.

6. Despite I don’t enjoy being the center of attention, I always prefer to be overdressed, never under the code.

7. I have a beautiful smile.

Ok, let’s see how this works. :)