Like an actual, in person, live and in color DATE. Dinner, coffee, drinks, movies, a show, gaming cafe, trivia night, walks, a road trip. Whatever floats your boat.

I'm 39, single, fun and sarcastic. Live in the NYC area. Work in the "exciting" world of IT and loving every minute of it. Basically I got this whole "adulting" thing down. Career, home, car, etc. I try not to take myself too seriously though, you shouldn't either.

I love movies, reading, trivia games. And feel equally comfortable at loud parties, the opera, dive bars and any place else. Mostly because I know what I want and I'm comfortable with who I am.

To keep it simple, what I want is a smart, funny sexy lady (mind you sexy is a concept that to me goes beyond the physical. Chemistry is 90% mental, though of course physical attraction is important too). A lady who will like me, and whom I will like back.

So if you're sporting a spellbinding smile, banter like nobody's business and bring a razor sharp wit and sense of humor. Also if you don't mind short guys (I'm 5'6). I would love to hear from you.

Please do not message if: - you're far away (five boroughs or close to NYC only please) - are seeking an online friend, "deep conversations online only" (yeah, on reddit. OK); and basically have no intention of meeting in real life. - chat at "blazing" speeds of one message a week. Good conversations are not cargo and should not be carried by one person. - are not open to talking on the phone, and making plans to hang out eventually - selling your pics, onlyfans or whatever (enough said)

If, however, you are looking to actually get to know each other, and if the connection is there meet in person, go on a date, or a bunch of dates and everything that entails. Please message me

Thanks for reading. Looking forward to hearing from you!