Hello and Welcome!

Anyone else find it difficult to make friends as an adult? I’ve recently went through a significant ripple in my friend group and I’m feeling very lonely. My wife (primary) is amazing and helping me feel better, though I would like to expand and find some more people in my circle that could evolve into a very close and trusted friend or possibly even a best friend.

I’m going through a few of life’s classic hiccups, so would not mind finding someone to explore and help work towards our own personal goals, give them motivation to get them through the day, someone that I can text with and to help them be their best self, not to mention build a solid friendship. I would love to start here on messages to see if we are a good fit, then eventually move to a platform like Discord or even texts. I’m not looking to be some random online weirdo friend that is just here to occasionally chat. I would like to build a real friendship with someone local or be adopted by a friend group. I want to build a real, genuine connections.

What about me? [ INTJ ] [St Paul, MN]

Well, I have a few other posts out there looking for friends with a deeper dive description, but the short version is that I’m a 41yo white guy from the Midwest. Total dad bod, with strong legs and what I’m told is a cute butt. I like to call myself pleasantly plump, but can still actually run for a mile. I’m artsy, love music, fairly nerdy but can wear a suit and look fucking great in it. I DO NOT have a fedora. Regularly shower and maintain general hygiene, love board games, and don’t need the flyer at conventions about wearing deodorant. I’ve very good with my hands, and there’s a strong possibility I’ll make you cool things if we do hit it off as friends.

Rounding out everything in what maybe should have been the first paragraph, I am in an ENM relationship, I am married and have a girlfriend. I am NOT looking for any other partners. I’m open to chat more about me if you have questions before we even decide that you’d like to see if we would be a good fit.

Ask me questions. I’m not narcissistic, but I am good at telling stories. I would love to hear some from you. People that can hold a conversation for more than a day will shoot to the top of the list.

Your sfw pic for mine, just shoot me a DM.

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