Man, batting like zero here... Why is this so difficult?

Also need to make it super clear that I am absolutely not looking for a chat partner. If you cannot make this happen, in person, regularly, and at least arrange a meet and greet fairly quickly, I am not interested.

So as the title implies, Im looking for a consistent FWB in the Phoenix area (Im NW valley). I’m not looking for anything completely mindless or NSA, I very much appreciate a connection, but Im not in a position to be diving into an LTR at the moment.

About me: 40. White. Single. Dark hair, fair skin. Pretty eyes and smile. Not bbw, but not fit. Put together. Definitely appreciate beer and pizza. Happy to share pics. Educated and professionally employed. Have a wide variety of interests and music tastes. Politically moderate, but left leaning. Social issues are important to me. Not really into nerd culture stuff. Very open-minded

About you: Attractive by most conventional standards. Tall-ish, Im not as picky as some can be. Fit-athletic to average or dad bod body type. I do appreciate a cleaner cut look overall but open. Hopefully also fairly educated and professional type. Enjoys sports, camping, outdoor activities. Preferably maybe 33-45ish. Might have some wiggle room either way. Because this post is oriented in the physical sense, attraction is super important and, big d

Caveat, you must be able to host. I cannot as I have a child home full time (late teen). Hope to hear back, please send a pic along with some info for fastest response. Im unlikely to respond to just hey or something low effort. Im not everyones type, and Im mindful of that, please be mindful that Im not going to find everyone my type either.

Edit: I thought this would be self explanatory since Im looking for an actual physical connection, but I am not looking for an online or chat situation, and no, Im not willing to travel, and Im not interested in someone who travels for work. I thought this should be obvious, but no, Im not interested if you're married or in a relationship. No, I have ZERO interest if you're younger than 30. Like none, zero, at all, no chance.