In a nutshell, I'm looking for a man who wants some level of monogamous companionship but not in the traditional sense of dating.

Why I'm doing this:

I'm a single mom and I run my own business. I'm very passionate about life in general, and overall I'm pretty happy. I'm basically the kind of woman those guys on podcasts complain about lol- I'm extremely ambitious, driven, fiercely independent, single mom (GASP THE HORROR!) and I'm comfortable in my own skin, I don't need anyone for validation.

So, I'm doing this because I really need something just for myself. I'm a giver by nature and I'm all over social media due to my business. I just want something that I don't have to share.

What I'm looking for:

I'd like companionship with a man where that part of our lives is completely separate from everything else. I have no interest in meeting your family or kids and vice versa. It would be private. Not necessarily a secret, but private. I'm in Florida, long distance is ok since we're not going to be in each other's lives like that, but I do prefer EST to make things a bit easier.

More about me:

I'm 5'3", black, a weird hybrid between curvy and athletic body type, big, long curly hair. Guys usually dig the visual but I am not Gods gift to men or anything like that. I won't feel comfortable sharing pics initially and I will not tell you about my business at first because it's extremely unique..one quick Google search is all you need for all my shit to pull up lol.

The type of guy who would be a good fit:

An equally ambitious guy who is busy with creating the best life possible for himself but he wants some level of companionship. He is either done with having kids or doesn't want kids whatsoever. He's emotionally available and mature, and is very serious about taking care of all aspects of his health (mental, physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual, etc.). He also wants this kind of dynamic to be longer term, but is not looking for a traditional girlfriend.

Deal breakers:

Please be SINGLE! Yes I want something private but I'm not a homewrecker and have no interest in ENM. Also, anyone who is looking for a FWB, hookup, short term fling, etc. I'm looking for something semi serious . Finally, if you're not happy in your life, have no drive or ambition, you haven't done and contine to do "the work", this won't work out.

If you made it all the way to end and this piqued your interest, please send me a message. Thank you!