Please be 30

Hello, I hope you're having a lovely day. Thank you for checking out my post.

A bit about me: I love old school turn based jrpg's (SaGa Frontier, Chrono Trigger, Wild Arms, I can go on), tabletop rpg's (D&D, 7th Sea, etc.), and music (such as stoner metal/rock, hair metal, some hip-hop, although I like many things).

For the boring stuff: I'm educated, have a career. More interesting stuff: I am a dog mom (her name is Honey Havok) and snake lover (all animals, really), liberal, love to cook, a bit of a wrestling mark (AEW, GCW, NJPW, etc.), child-free, and love to learn new things.

The real stuff: I am autistic, demisexual, and have depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, and adhd with a sprinkle of ptsd. This means I am not always the easiest woman to deal with and my moods can fluctuate while my doctors try to figure out what works. It's a process and I hope to find something helpful soon.

In general, I am pretty laid back, have an odd sense of humor (give me all your dad jokes and dark humor). I'm also a little spooky in that I love taxidermy and wet specimens. I don't have a huge collection (yet) but it's growing slowly.

As for the kind of men I enjoy...I tend to like them nerdy, strong, and intimidating. If people are generally scared of you, I'm probably already interested in you. Tattoos are a plus as is a well-kept, very short beard. Mohawks are one of my weaknesses. I also greatly value good communication skills and a sense of humor. I would like for us to be able to express ourselves without fear of judgement and be able to laugh at the absurdity of life together. I love the written word and appreciate men that are intelligent, witty, and able to participate in a little banter. Make me fall for your words and mind.

I am ideally looking for a single, child-free, non-smoking 30 nerdy and/or alt guy with a good personality, similar interests, is in or near the US (possibly open to someone who would relocate to the northeast), and who is open to something serious and monogamous after we get to know each other and build up a friendship as I am a one man kind of woman. However, I am open to just friendship as well so don't let this scare you.

If anything in my post sparks your interest; feel free to message me with a little about yourself, a picture so I can put a face to the name would be nice but not required, and why you chose to message me. Bonus Points for dog or reptile pictures.

Me: https://ibb.co/VmbbT8Q https://ibb.co/L8V3t15

I don't mind sharing more pictures over Discord or something if we connect and feel like there is potential but this is something to build up to.