I’m not necessarily looking for anything super serious, I’m still a hopeless romantic that values real connections. I’d love to connect with someone that is just as excited about me as I am about them, preferably in or near the Portland area (but I’m open to somewhere on the west coast if you have the means to actually travel). I’m not really interested in a pen pal who has no intention of meeting.

About me: I’m a thick Asian girl that spends most of her free time in the gym or trying new bars/restaurants in the area. I’m a motivated, educated, professional that doesn’t take herself too seriously, but I also don’t care for senseless BS. Needless to say, I’ve got my shit together, and I’d like it if you did too.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/QEQAFZQ

Here’s what you could wake up to: https://imgur.com/a/IaHvSIu

Other pics in my bio.

Things I’m interested in: travel (Spain in the Spring!), lifting heavy, FOOD, movies/TV, dancing, singing, reading, anime, a little gaming, photography (used to be my profession), and long naps. Words of affirmation and physical touch are also pretty important to me.

I’m a real person, so you should be one too. I’m not interested in games or catfish. If you’re going to be weird about sharing photos, then don’t bother. I like to put a face to who I’m chatting with and enjoy sharing random pics on occasion.

Please be between 32-46, attractive (physical attraction is huge for me), NOT conservative, have a good job, values your friendships, consistent, and actively participate in conversation. Good banter is really attractive, but as I mentioned earlier, I’m not interested in a pen pal… I cannot stress this enough. If we vibe, let’s grab dinner and see how things go.

I don’t really have a type, but some qualities I find physically attractive are: men who are clean cut (a trimmed beard is ok), tall enough for me to wear heels around (I’m 5’7”), someone who is physically active (and doesn’t skip leg day!), glasses, and strong hands. Historically, I’ve dated men of color, but that doesn’t really mean anything.