Married with kids and in a very deep roommate situation. I am not looking to change my situation or yours. I just want someone to connect with and have fun with. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously, as I love to laugh! I also love meaningful conversations as well.

It is a good life, but l'm missing some fun and excitement for myself in all of the chaos. I've been married over a decade and although it's been amazing and the love is there, I miss the conversation. I miss the flirting. I miss the hanging on each other's words. I miss the laughing. I miss the desire of wanting to see a notification on my phone. I want to talk dirty and I want to talk clean and I want to feel all of the feelings.

I'm looking for a woman who also needs love, attention, and affection. I am looking for more than sex. I want to be excited about your life, and vice versa. I basically want to be everything your husband/boyfriend/fiance isnt. I want us to be completely enamored and distracted by eachother. I also want to be a man that hypes you up, and leaves you smiling, and knows everything about you. I am not opposed to love, and want love. I'm emotionally available (not angry, bitter, etc), I hope you are too

I want you to consume my every thought. I want to be excited by your good morning text and sad because I don't want to say goodnight. I want to hear what you thought of that Netflix series you just binged. Laugh at our silly inside jokes. Send silly selfies.

I want someone who has the time for this. I want someone who pays attention. Has read this and wants the same thing. Physical attraction is not the most important thing but it's still needed so please send a picture or be prepared to share one fairly early.

I want to see the best in the world. Everyone can sweet talk and make jokes and pretend to be there for the right reasons. I’m done with fake and I don’t want to waste your time or mine.

I’d like good conversation. For the long term. Let me see the real and raw you. Don’t put on a facade, it’ll make me question everything about you.

I want to build connections. Doesn’t mean romance, friends are great to. Show me chilvery isn’t dead and we can be equal. Open your heart and prove your trust because you’ll get both with me. I don’t do games when it comes to life. Genuine and real goes a long way.

I’m open to chat about anything. If your going to ghost, don’t bother. I’m caring and sweet but I won’t let you walk all over me or sweet talk me into anything. The good ones are out there, for friendship and more, maybe come find me for a change.

If you need a listening ear and have some things to vent I’m here for you. Life can be rough but it’s easier when you have a companion behind you.

I’m looking for mine, come join. Look forward to what the future holds and if anyone is brave enough to be vulnerable with me. Because let’s face it, being vulnerable is scary. But some amazing things can come from it.

Looking for something long term. Someone cool, can match my banter, and can build a connection before sexting. I dont want someone that just tries to tell me what I want to hear. Trust me I will know 😁. Prefer 35-45 and in EST.