I'm a european living in the US already for a few months. GF, who lives in Europe, keeps coming up with flimsy excuses not to visit, and I'm starting to get tired of it. I'm not ready to end my relationship yet, but I feel it is time to take care of myself (I'm aware this is cheating and take full responsibility for the consequences of my actions). I'm looking for something we both agree is going to be temporary, preferably with a mature and well-grounded woman.

I'm 1.83m and 67kg (~6ft tall, 147pounds). Slim-fit (work-out regularly) with stamina :). I'm educated (PhD), like books, movies, and classical music. I can maintain a proper conversation (in several languages!). I don't do drugs or drink. My work schedule is flexible from time to time.

What I have to offer: I want to emphasise the chill aspect of us meeting and the listening. We can go for dinner, a movie, an event, cook together, or just have a long walk and a talk. I'll foot the bill if there are expenses. If you want to unload your baggage, I'll listen in a non-judgmental manner. I'll be cheating, so who am I to judge? Also, I'll share openly about my situation if you want to listen, but I'm ok keeping things for myself if you don't feel like it. Plain fun is also OK. My GF isn't around so I don't have to hide, but I'll understand if you need to keep things low key to protect your privacy and safety.

Sex is on the cards, of course. I like to emphasise the sensual aspect of sex. Making you feel sexy, saying nice things to you in the ear, slow touching, kissing, teasing, massaging, etc. But we can do rough as well. Fantasies? Fetishes? Just ask! We'll make them happen. This is going to be temporary, so it's an excellent chance to experiment without feeling shame.

My only condition are no drugs involved. As for the rest, I'm very accepting of people's believes, opinions, body types, etc. We are here to support each other (even if that takes cheating on our partners!)