Hi. I'm a divorced, well established Black woman who is nerdy. I chose full retirement in my late 50s to have more time to just enjoy life.

I want to meet a stable single man 40 , the closer to my age the better. I seek a man interested in developing a long term relationship that includes:

-Hugs -Cuddles -Holding hands -Text messages that make us both smile -Date nights out/romantic evenings in -Voice calls/vid chats that make you sigh in comfort or shiver with anticipation

Things I want: -Your time, attention and devotion -Your eyes to light up when I walk in a room, knowing my eyes and smiles are just for you -old fashion courtesy/manners; open minded thinking and intellect

Things you want: -Attention from a real woman who will genuinely care for you -A nurturing supportive presence in your life -Someone who knows what she wants and what she doesn't, and will tell you so you don't have to guess -Someone resilient who understands that anything meaningful takes hard work, commitment, good communication, room to mess up, own it, and forgive it (for real) to keep things moving forward

Things I need: -someone unattached (emotionally and legally) -someone with integrity who communicates honestly -someone masculine (doesn't mean you must be muscular) -someone well established in life who is not intimidated by a strong, intelligent, financially independent woman -someone comfortable with interracial dating (not someone who fetishizes it) -someone local to me or able to travel to me often (I have a health situation/invisible disability that makes it harder for me to travel solo. Happy to say more if we connect.) -someone with a sense of humor -someone who wants to develop a long term, multi faceted relationship; not someone just interested in sex

Things you need: I look forward to hearing from you on this when you message me.

https://imgur.com/a/IxvTIm7

What 60 looks like https://imgur.com/pfb3oZ6.jpg

Me in June 2023 https://imgur.com/a/TbIpu1I