Please read the post thoroughly and only reach out if you're looking for the same thing(s).

Gonna get some potential dealbreakers out of the way since I'm not here to waste anyone's time.

• Physically: South-east Asian, 5'5", face pic, a bit chubby but working on it

• Strictly monogamous

• Night owl - This one is fairly important as it'll dictate how much time we can spend together.

• Agnostic/Spiritual leaning

• Not into social media (Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok). It's okay if you are, and I don't mind if you share anything.

Hello! Thanks for taking the time to check out my post :) I'm on EST, so it's hard to find someone to talk to. Unfortunate effect of my work schedule. Definitely open to voice chat, and video chat if/when we're comfortable with it. I strongly prefer to talk on either Telegram or Discord once we decide to transition off of Reddit.

I've had some success meeting and connecting with people, but it usually fizzles out after a few weeks at most. So I'm hoping to find something to last far longer. I'm ready to welcome someone back into my life. Someone I can talk to throughout the day, and even more so once we're home. Talk about our interests, passions, hobbies, and everything in between. Allow ourselves to be open and vulnerable, without hesitation and fear of judgement. Reflect on the experiences that made us who we are today and appreciate each other all the more for it. Be each other's motivations. A lot of people think motivation should come from within, and I understand that view, but I think it's incredibly sweet to be able to inspire each other. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who has time, or at least is willing to make time. When I'm home from work, I have most of the night ahead of me, and I'm excited and willing to spend those hours with you. But I can only do that if you're willing to as well. Consistent mutuality has been the biggest struggle for me, and for a lot of people here as well I'm sure, but I know someone out there is willing to reciprocate the same time and energy as I am! Let's not have to chase each other.

I'm somewhat nerdy/geeky. I do play video games, but it's mostly (if not all) singelplayer. Like a handful of anime, mostly ones from the 90's to early 2000's. Enjoy most things sci-fi, fantasy, and horror, but I can enjoy anything as long as the story is good! I will say, though, that my favorite Netflix show to date is Dark. I would love to watch it with you together while we're on call and talk about it afterwards. Of course, I am more then willing to watch things you enjoy as well! I am currently on my weight loss journey and so far have lost 20 pounds. It's not much, but I'm proud of it and I still have a long way to go. I'm also a huge fan of electronic music, but you don't have to be. I can, however, convince you that it's not all EDM or dubstep haha. Here's a playlist to some of my favorite songs if you're interested. I am left leaning/liberal. Pro-choice and LGBTQ friendly, and hope you are too. Also, despite not liking the smell, I am 420 friendly haha. I don't smoke and only drink socially.

About you (hopefully):

• Any race, height/weight, religious views (as long as you're okay with mine)

• Within their late 20's or older.

• Mentally/emotionally intelligent and available, and is currently ready to accept someone into their life.

• Comfortable, or at least okay, with distance. I am willing to discuss visiting if/when we get there.

• Open minded, accepting, supportive.

• Can hold a conversation.

• You don't have to have your shit together. Life is rough, and I'm understanding. As long as you are happy with where you are, or are making efforts to get there.

• Be passionate about something. Anything. Share it with me :)

• Have some semblance of a post history. If your profile is filled with memes, or if your username is random words with a string of numbers, that doesn't bode well.

Extra bonus points if you have short hair, but this is neither a preference nor a requirement. A picture of you would be nice, or at least a description of you.

I'm excited to hear from you! PM's only please. I have chat turned off due to bots. I hope you're all having a great evening! :)